Saturday, April 26, 2014

What my Mother has to do with my money problems

Mother kissing her son with love
What my mother has to do with my money problems? This was a question I asked to my friend Zureya Queipo when trying to separate out some money problems, she sounded out “everything” I smiled I could not trust that assertion every bit true!.

I replied “please explain to me because I don’t Get it and probably not a batch of people know this”

How our Mother is related to our money troubles?

Well, according to Zureya who by the way is a very spiritual soul who aids people through the work of Family Constellations and also has a School for Women, according to what she stated if we have unresolved problems with our mother we will have money issues our whole lifetime.

We need to work from the inside out, looking back into our past and see how our relationship with our mother is or was… if you happen to notice there are many traumas or issues still pending between you and your mother then the money just won’t flow to you.

How to do to heal or fix issues with your mother

Now that we know  where this its been created, then here comes the best part, we have to forgive all what has happened to our mother in order to open the flow of money into our lives.

When she proved me how things go I realize still was admitting a lot of grudges from my teen years, a mass of anger I didn’t even know was there hiding very deep in my core.

Need time to condense it,  it's not easy to bear the fact that who is “messing your life up” is your own mother! Of course she is totally sinless. How does she know we are still lodged in the past?

Where  do you start forgiving?

From the beginning, I say   it’s a joke… we have to slow down, take hold of a piece of paper, pen or pencil and begin writing down whatever occurs to mind against your mother, write all the unresolved problems between the two of you.
Forgiveness is not an easy task we believe simply by pronouncing “I forgive you” voila! All is fixed… it does not work that way it has to be from the bottom of our heart with an amazing love and desire to change not your mum but yourself.

Everyone of us has the right to live without guilt and blame  which is in the end the main reason why we have those money problems because we feel guilty and ashamed of the resentment towards whom we suppose to love.


Our mother is a very substantial image in our lives and thus are the attachments and resentments that keep making up through time, are they positive or minus, we select, quit  the struggle of letting go, forgive, be grateful and let me know if your flow of money change.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Best school for your Spiritual Awakening

We all go looking for a spiritual teacher to tell us what to do or where to go to reach Spiritual awareness, to become one with everything, to be a better person and you buy every book that you know about, read every magazine, go to every conference or course you can find… and guess what the best school for Spiritual Awakening its your home!

How can your home be your school for spiritual awakening?

In the past, I did just as you do now I spent lots of money looking for answers to my spiritual questions, to my insatiable need for knowledge I ended up with only one book picked among several and back home.

Yes, back home, you face your family issues, your problems, your resentments and all the pain, abandonment and all the things you think your family did to you. Then you come to realize the more you forgive them the more you work towards your Spiritual Awakening!

As you can see the best school for your spiritual Awakening its your home with your family those are the thorns on your soul the ones need get rid of.

There are many ways that can take you to your Higher Self one of them its through your husband, your wife, your mother, father even your children.

How can you use your family for your Spiritual Awakening

I think the word “use” might sound, you a little bit off, but in this case its correct because you use them as mirrors, oh yes, they are mirrors reflecting back to you all what you don’t like about yourself.

At home every day, every hour is a lesson when you sit together at breakfast, lunch or dinner, when you call your husband at work and he doesn’t answer as soon as you would like him to or when he forgets to go to the store and buy something you needed.

Simply by your desire of changing your children or your partner, changing the way they think or they behave, when feeling victimized by what it is done to you.

All you have learned about Spiritual awakening its challenge it here, it does not make sense to go away where no one is around you, where it's only you and your soul.

What lessons are you learning?

The main lesson you learn is that the biggest mountain is within you Higher Power always teaches by repetition if we don’t get it the first time we will eventually because it will be coming back again and again until you finally forgive the “issue”.

The lessons are about love and forgiveness because by forgiving others, we forgive ourselves, as you might know a lot of the problems we have in our lives come from unresolved situations with our parents, siblings and/or with love life partners.

It's for you to decide if what you are giving is unconditional love or conditional illusion be honest to yourself, discover the best school for your spiritual awakening it’s at home. Don’t miss your chance for Inner Growth while at the same time loving them as one.

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Are you still Lost in the Matrix

matrix, face
In 1999 when this motion picture turned out I viewed it in the theater, possibly wasn't the ideal time for me to comprehend the message I got a couple of parts here and there, in those days in my presumption I thought I knew everything that there was nothing for me to realize… how wrong I was! I can let you know now I was lost in the Matrix!!

Much the same as in the film it appears you are snared to an enormous machine which doesn't permit you to be free, lost in the actuality that the painted eyes of your physical body show you.

Lost in the sea of your faculties, in the pursuit to be, need and have more material stuff you carry on with your life trapped in the unbelievable universe of trepidation and uncertainty.

I know consume an  over medium steak with its red wine is delectable, having the auto or the house you needed is amazing

Those were your wishes, you concentrated on, imagined and envisioned about it so it was given yet that is not the true opportunity!

What is the Matrix?

We all are lost in the Matrix  like Morpheus says to Neo everything around you, your car, your house, your wife or husband whatever you can see, touch, taste, smell and feel, it is  what you call the real world, the one you live lost in daily.

Why did I beat you?

Why did I beat you Neo? The response is simply on the grounds that he is still lost in the Matrix much the same as you and I. You are hesitant to free your psyche. It is not difficult to stay in a safe place where as per you nothing can harm you

We are capable to create amazing things, but  doubt is always sneaking into your mind you have to embrace your fears  to realize that the power of negative thoughts is the thing that keeps you  snared to the huge machine, living like a zombie, strolling snoozing, being a slave of your faculties.

“Spoon boy:
Do not try and bend the spoon. That’s impossible. Instead… only try to realize the truth.
What truth?
Spoon boy:
There is no spoon
There is no spoon?
Spoon boy:
Then you’ll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself “

Matrix quote from imdb quotes

The spoon does not bend which means the outside won’t change it doesn’t even exist, it is you who has to free your mind from disbelief, from all your fears.
It is somewhat difficult to look around and see that what you generally took as true it is not any longer. What pill you take it is your decision red is to be free blue you stay lost in the grid. Open the entryway and stroll through it realizing that there is no possibility to get to be an obligation no one but you can take.

Alternately,  like my sister says "I rather delight in the joy of lack of awareness, I would prefer not to know and lose my hair suspecting that what I have known doesn't even exist" In the end is about the decisions we fulfill…  be, be fair to yourself, be free.

Monday, April 7, 2014

What do I do Meditation or Prayer ?

man, prayer, kneeling, meditation

In everyday life Meditation has become a very important way to get strength and peace due to the stress at work, at home and so on. Perhaps for you it is easy to concentrate and mediation goes fine from beginning to end, but some people like more prayer so What do I do  Meditation or Prayer?

First of all you need to know what is  meditation and what is prayer, then you can decide which one suits your needs better.

What is Prayer?

Prayer is a spoken petition made to God…. In regular prayer, we just recite it and ask, beg and plead to God for help with our problems, forgiveness for our sins to a God that is up in heaven, we supplicate him to fulfill desires or wishes that deep inside we believe don’t deserve because of the wrong we have done in life.

Doing Prayer is not bad at all but when done the right way as Stretton Smith teaches In his 4T program a prayer does not have to be long a boring go straight to your Higher Self and ask for what you want and it will be given to you.

For example

“The Divine Mind (or whatever you want to call it) within gives me now the $1000 dollars I need to pay my bills this month” or

"The God that I am, helps me now to find a wonderful, fulfilling excellent paid new job"

That’s it short, plain and simple God already knows all about you!!! This is just an example, you can add or fix it as you please.

What is Meditation?

Meditation is a form of mind training, sitting with eyes closed and clean your mind of all the clutter that is there all day long is a way of getting in touch with whom you really are,  when practice meditation on a daily basis results are amazing, reduces stress, pain, etc. It helps your overall health, not to mention how synchronicity starts happening.

When meditating we look younger, we feel stronger and happier add to this that answers to all your questions begin to show up, but the most important thing is you are at peace with yourself because you know Higher Power is flowing through you. It is great to learn how to live without guilt and blame  and with meditation one get to that point quicker than with only prayer

In the end it is your choice what to do when the question what do I do Prayer or Meditation arises in your mind, it depends on your mood or in what you believe I use both,  Prayer is a relaxing entry to meditation for me due to the big trouble concentration used to be… never give up on trying the results and changes in your life are as I mentioned before… amazing!

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

How do I Fulfill my Dreams

As humans, we all have dreams some of us seek for a way to fulfill them some part just let them come, be in our mind for a while then give up on them however from time to time you give a little thought to it and ask to the Universe How do I fulfill my dreams? Is there a way? Because I don’t see it.

"A person who cannot imagine the future is a person who cannot contemplate the results of his actions. Some are thus paralyzed into inaction"
       Alan Lightman, Einstein's dreams goodreads quotes


What to do  to fulfill your dreams?

First of all, the main reason a dream stays a dream forever, it is because of you! Fear and doubt flood our minds, giving lots and lots of excuses and putting imagined obstacles every step of the way. In order to fulfill your dreams you must be strong and have a clear vision of what you want to add passion to it at the same time detaching from the outcome just know that it is already there, that it's already yours and give thanks.
There will be ups and downs, self judgment and criticism will be on the everyday menu while working towards your goals but don’t lose focus, shake those thoughts  are not you… listen to your Inner Guidance your Spirit knows better.

Stop sabotaging yourself

You must be aware of self sabotage  as at the same time we all have the power to manifest whatever we want, our mind becomes the enemy when in the process either because you allow another person's negativity penetrate and contaminate you with it or because you are too attach to failure. Neither one can be stronger than your dreams, go for it if you happen to live in a non healthy environment full of negativity, get out run away from it in case you cannot do it then start mastering meditation.
You have to learn how to use your imagination, how to feel as if your dreams already happen, as if they are already fulfilled, to believe that with God, Higher Power,The Universe or whatever you prefer to call it EVERY THING can happen.

In Conclusion
It is your own choice to go complaining around on how life is bad and full of trouble or change your mind, change your thoughts, next time in meditation ask to your Self how do I fulfill my dreams the answer will be there things will start working on your behalf synchronicity begins showing in your life rely on the power that is within you.

Happy dreams.