Friday, September 6, 2013

Unconditional Love or Conditional Illusion

Wedding, cartoon of couple in love
I am in love, but… Is this feeling Unconditional love or a Conditional Illusion? How do I know which one it is? As much as you think is hard to know… let me tell you it is not.

When you love unconditionally, you allow the other person to be free to be and do what He or She wants without attachments letting them go and inside you there is this unbelievable happiness because you are doing the right thing.

How do I know is Unconditional Love?

Not feeling hurt or left behind not being upset or resentful against them, having enough with the joy of seeing their dreams fulfilled as if they were your own. Opening your arms and loose the knots loose the ties and let  your Self be.

But on the opposite side when you only live one of those conditional illusions of love, then release and let go its like an excruciating pain, your heart seems to stop working only by the thought of your partner leaving.
I have had my own dose of Illusion myself, I thought I knew better I had healed my wounds, but surprise I just had a lesson on it…!

Your Ego Self makes you think that you are already an expert in love relationships, but true is you don’t until the test comes and you… failed…!!!

I wish I could time travel and change things and fix past mistakes, but I can’t the only thing I Can do is to bless him. I have read in many books that our relationships are like mirrors that reflect back to you what needs work in your life I totally AGREE…!!!

When you live an Illusion of love if everything goes your way it’s the ultimate happiness, but there is this thin line between both conditional and unconditional, its like you crossed it in your sleep, then the circus start jealousy, lies, doubts, fear of losing him or her your life changes in a blink of an eye.

What am I doing? Why am I acting this way? Don't you suppose to be in control over this? I am a spiritual person…!!! Where is everything I have learned about it? Why I let my Ego  take control and didn’t even notice it? I was too busy trying to keep a good relationship that I messed it all up…!

How many of us have done this? Maybe more than we want to admit so I ask again… are you living an Unconditional love story or one of Conditional Illusion?

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