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When you feel and see yourself in that way, then you become defensive and feel also attacked when somebody say something about your hair or your body or whatever else it really doesn’t matter because is all in your mind…!!!
You are not comfortable with who you are but also means NOTHING can make you happy because you don’t know how to be happy with yourself…!!
The body is only an equipment for us to communicate some of us were blessed having beauty some of us didn’t but either way you can be the beast in the outside but have a magnificent divine loving heart in the inside.
There is magic in this world of course there is but we have to learn to see it there are beauty everywhere, but we have to stop and see it this miracle starts happening when you discover the magic of loving yourself.
This made me to remember a long time ago when I used to walk on the street and timidly take a look over my shoulder to the image on the glass windows and didn’t like what I saw fortunately my case wasn’t that severe because I could change my mind.
It is crazy how you want to change what you are, you spend lots of money trying to change your hair, your nose, your breasts, your butt everything…! Becoming someone you are not… you can even check on a picture the before and the after.
What I am trying to say is if you don’t perceive yourself beautiful then no one else would the beauty is not in the body, even though in our society “ugly” people, it’s been rejected and laugh at only because is not as pretty as “it should be”.
Yes, every time I walk through a mirror, I look at my reflection and say to her “you have to start working out again, food its delicious, but your health is also important” and I smile I accept the fact that I have eaten more junk food lately than I should be but I have stopped blaming or feeling guilty.
Your body is the temple in which your Divinity lives so you have to take care of it, I agree, but not to the point where body its everything. Nowadays, what you watch on television all the time is skinny girls and if you are not like them then you are fat and ugly.
Do not forget we are a Spirit having a Physical experience not the other way around… so now let me ask you…
How do you see yourself? As a unique, amazing diamond? Or as ugly as the hunchback of Notre Dame? And though he had the beauty in his heart..!