Monday, April 8, 2013

Chasing Love

Chasing Love and Why we Become Obsessive with it

Well I chased for love more than I’d like to admit… I remember the first time the book The Mastery of Love came into my hands, was exactly the right timing, I was going through bad times in a relationship ( once more ) didn’t know what to do, tell me who hasn’t gone through those feelings of desperation, anxiety, obsession, suffering, sleep deprivation after a break up? I was really, really bad, and alone, and asking why all these events in my life were like a horror movie that keeps rewinding, so as I was saying this book came along and I discover all the Negative Programs still in my mind. 

So  I read the whole Mastery of Love…I read it againand then I stopped in this paragraph that turned the light on in my headIn the same way, we become masters of jealousy, masters of sadness, masters of self-rejection. All of our drama and suffering is by practice. We make an agreement with ourselves, and we practice that agreement until it becomes a whole mastery."  I sadly discover I had made an agreement with self-rejection…!

Didn’t finish there after knowing all this and accepted it…I fell again for the wrong guy…! That was it…no more I said, my life is a nightmare, no one person can live like me, I was trying to force him into loving me, he was a jerk, but because I was so spiritual and such a good person I put up with every humiliation, the Verbal Abuse, his rejection was total but I did not want  to see it, I was desperately in need for love.

The reality is we all look for an Illusion of Love, we look to imprison the person that is the object of our "love", at the beginning everything is nice and pretty but when time passes by and we've to change this significant other, and she or he didn't do or behaved the way we wanted...the magic disappears he or she is not the right person anymore. Although we know deep inside something is wrong we become obsessive with Love and there we go again to the Chase for Love to the point where it becomes almost a nightmare...yes we become obsessive trying to find it where is not...

Stop chasing Illusions, learn to connect with your Higher Self, close your eyes and look within there you'll find all you need,  its a lie programmed in our minds that we need a person to be complete and to love us, all the love we need is already in you. Make the agreement to be happy, make a Love Agreement,  become a Master of Love...!!!

“Light reaches even the darkest corner”

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